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SEEKING LISTENERS

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Somedays back, one of my friends created an account on a dating app. She loved her single life, she was never the one looking for her so called perfect love. This move made by her was really astonishing for me. On being asked she said " I don't really need a relationship but I just want to interact and find new people, you know it is so interesting to get to know new people. "  I stayed in touch with her to know her moves on the app. Yes obviously she did find some desperate people (she rejected them as she was looking for something worthy) out there but to my surprise, she really did find some amazing and unique personalities. It's such a blissful feeling isn't it that you find some people who are appealing not just by how they look but the way they think?  Well, this move by my friend made me think that no matter what we say, but human beings do crave for interaction. One may be an introvert or had faced a trauma in life, but still the per...

HEAL THE HURT

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Hurt and heal, both are four letter words which can transform a person completely. In today’s highly ambitious world, everyone is hurt. Some grieve of separation from their loved ones, some are depressed of failures in life and some are finding it really hard to survive in here. We are hurt by unwanted gestures, unexpected words, faulty expectations, ignorant attitudes and unfortunate incidents. We all desire to escape from these harsh realities of life and sometimes take on to fatal acts such as drug or alcohol addiction. A continuous phase of hurt drowns many of us in the swamp of depression which if not identified and cured, leads a person to commit suicide. We tend to forget that if we can feel the hurt, we can even feel the power of healing. Each one of us has an ability to heal others and on the journey of healing them, we also heal our own wounds. But we hardly talk about our hurt, we fear judgment. We dislike pity and sympathy of others. Everyone has been hurt one or t...