FOREVER IS NOT A LIE!!

As per Oxford dictionary, TRUST means 

A firm belief in the reliability, truth or ability of someone or something. 

However, we live in a world which has trust issues and commitment problems.

How come our generation suddenly has trust issues ? 

And how we have a commitment phobic population?

Forever and always were never a lie until we made it that way. It's really disturbing to notice that people's faith on commitments , loyalty and trust is fading.

Well, who is responsible for this downward fall?  

We, our ownselves, are to be blamed for this new idea.

As we cannot convince others for something we are not convinced about, just like that we are unable to trust others because we ourselves, are not trustworthy. We are disloyal. We have sometime broken promises and vows made to others.

We have backstabbed someone and thus, we fear that karma might bring it back at us. It is our fear that doesn't allow us to trust others. 

So as , everything begins with self. We need to emerge as trustworthy, loyal and faithful humans. As long as we can't trust our own actions, we can't trust others. 

If we stop betraying others, we will gradually and eventually, grow to trust ourselves as well as others. 

So make people believe that forever and always do exist and that trust is not one of the old forgotten values. 

As of now, these trust issues have just sprung up in personal relationships,but it won't take much time for these to surface in the professional relationships too.

What if in a dance performance, one doesn't trust his partner?

What if an employee doesn't trust his employee or vice versa?

What if a student doesn't trust his teacher?

What if an author doesn't trust his editor?

If all these what ifs turn into reality, we would live in a technologically connected but an emotionally disconnected world, which I bet won't be much of a humane world.  Our world is already plagued with many ill issues and problems, let trust not add on to the list.

We need to remember and make this clear to ourselves that we , human beings cannot survive in isolation, we need to socialize, 

 and it is trust that makes it  possible. 

Trust is not just a value, it is a form of energy which binds everything and everyone together.Once we learn to trust, commitments won't be much of an issue. 

And if we start to commit, we would ultimately not break the other one's trust.

So, 

Rather than developing a world that is  technologically advanced but is composed of selfish and untrustworthy individuals,

we must set on to create a world that is technologically advanced, but is composed of united and faithful population.

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